Alte Frau, New Life

Alte Frau, New Life

Needed But Not Wanted

On life as an immigrant in the 21st century

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Cathi Harris
Jul 10, 2025
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“Please have patience,” read the email from the Schulamt. “We will assign your son a spot in a class as soon as one is available and you will be properly informed by mail.”1

I had thought I was being patient.

My son, then 12, had been on a waiting list for a school place for four months. Mindful of Germany’s strict compulsory school attendance laws, I had registered him in our district soon after we arrived, acknowledging that he would need to be in a Wilkommenklasse to learn German, at first.

I had received an confirmation of the application, but nothing else, so after 60 days, I emailed a different school district office (the office phone rang unanswered) to inquire further.

This prompted the reply above from my application’s original recipient.

“The classes are all over-crowded,” she wrote by way of explanation, adding pointedly: “Too many immigrants moved here last year.”

I think about this interaction often.

Usually when hearing about yet another…

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